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howdydeezy youtube! this week in class we talked about parenting across cultures. we took a survey about whether or not we want children, if we slept with our parents and when the most enjoyable time of our childhood was. some of these differ a lot more culturally than individually. i think how long you sleep with your parents is a cultural part, the Japanese students reported sleeping with their parents for far longer than those from other cultures. the best time i had was in elementary school because i felt so free as a child. no responsibilities, no need to think for myself, it was the best time. i also had a good time in high school but it was more degenerative and less pure than elementary school. 


For the Hofstede part of class we talked indulgent vs restrained cultures. america as expected scales higher on the indulgent side. When dutch man was talking about the cultures and their differences in indulgence level. i would prefer to live in a more indulgent society, it just feels like more fun. 

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  1. AboodiJuly 7, 2025 at 11:14 PM

    My favorite time personally was also highschool because my parents were less strict about things like curfews and things like that, or if I were to go to a place like a billiards lounge my dad wouldn’t object.

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